YOU
HAVE TO LET THE PAST GO, SO YOU CAN GROW
The good is the enemy
of the better. Stop saying the good old days, let them go so you can grow.
You’ve succeeded
in the past, I mean excellent success, renowned achievement and mesmerizing upliftment,
yet let that success inspire you to grow and become better and greater.
On the other hand,
you might have had downgrading failures in the past, I mean embarrassing downfalls;
don’t let it hinder you from achieving a greater and better success tomorrow.
Practically
speaking, most of the successful people I know got successful after many
failures. It is better to try and fail, than stay in your comfort zone, do
nothing and be living in a fool’s paradise. Risk takers are high achievers.
You’ve spent
enough time in self-pity, cries of woes and self-doubt because of your past
failures. Get up on your feet and scream IT IS NOT OVER UNTIL I WIN.
Les Brown said, if
life knocks you down, try to land on your back, because if you can look up, you
can get up, and if you can get up, you can succeed. Let your reasons (why you
must succeed) get you up!
Perhaps you say,
you don’t understand, divorce is not that easy to get out of. God said He hates
divorce because of what divorce does to His creatures. It shatters their
confidence and leaves them with a feeling of emptiness, but I beg you to stop
wallowing in self-pity, get up on your feet and say I am going to get through
to the end of this tunnel called divorce and make it in life and marriage.
Immediate re-marriage
or relationship is not the answer to your past failed relationship. Be patient,
be alone first to get to know and understand your personality and what you
really want in a relationship before venturing into meeting another person.
Maybe your husband
has committed marital infidelity and you vowed never to forgive him and forget
the incidence. You plan to divorce him, leave him and go away. But you know
what, you are taking a wrong decision; let the past go, so you can grow.
If you just walk
away, the memory of the good times you had together will linger, and you know
what, you just execute the final phase of the plan of that whore/prostitute who
had strategise that you leave him, so he can be all hers. She will enjoy, what
both of you had taken years to build and gather together.
You know what you
will do? Disappoint that home-breaker/husband snatcher, FORGIVE your husband,
FORGET (though difficult) the past and guide your home against wolves. Women
are the home-keepers; a wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears
it down with her hands (Bible).
Friends, I can continue
to multiply instances why holding back to the past impedes our current joy and
happiness! Common, let go of the past, so you can grow!
Thanks for taking
time to go through this. Leave a comment, if this has really touch/bless you.
Mayowa Taiwo (timayor_computers)
